Last summer they went out to the garden together. Just the two of them. They found a warm patch of black earth and began digging. It would be a home for the bare gnarly sapling in her tiny hands.
“Can this be my tree, Daddy?”
He didn’t know why he hadn’t thought of it before. “Of course it can be your tree.”
Every weekend she put on her little gardening gloves and set to work. She filled up her watering cans, pulled out the weeds, and imagined what her tree would be.
Sometimes over breakfast she’d remark “I think the birds are on my tree today. Silly birds.” Or “Can you see my tree, Mum? I think it may have grown taller today”.
The months passed. Painfully slow. “But why is it taking so long?” she asked with all the impatience of a 3 year old.
All the while she was asking the same question about her birthday. And the countdown began. 3 months, 2 months, 4 weeks, 5 days. “But why is it taking so long?”
The morning of her birthday burst through with squeals and dancing. She was finally four years old. After presents were opened, her father told her he’d noticed something in the garden the night before. “Let’s go check on your tree”.
She ran back inside, her cheeks a pinky hue. “Mum! My tree has blossomed!”
A week later we were sitting at the breakfast table and she looked out to her beautiful blossoming birthday tree. “Mum, is it a blossom tree?”
I explained it was actually a plum tree. Her eyes sparkled and her mouth began to gape. “A plum! I love plums! Can it be an orange and apple tree as well?”
We chatted a bit more. Then I paused. I was curious. “Why do you like this tree so much, darling?”
“Oh Mum, can we not talk about the tree. Let’s talk about the sandpit we can build next to the tree”.
“But seriously, can you tell me why you like it. What is the reason?”
“Well I think you know the reason, Mum.”
“Really? Okay.”
“Mum, you’ll know soon enough.”
I thought about a bit more. Still nothing.
A few minutes later. “But can’t you just tell me the reason?”
“Because I love it. That’s all. I just LOVE it.”
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Sooo divine Deb, she is so divine. x
Kate @ Our Little Sins recently posted..day 91 | 100 Pantone postcards
Oh yes, Kate, she is definitely divine. xx
I love those trees too and happy belated birthday to your little girl x
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oh gosh, and “because I just love it” is enough of answer sweetie. It is the most beautiful blossom tree in the world because it is yours xxx
Lisa – lybliss recently posted..PPD and Depression – Glimpses of that place
Thank you for your lovely comment, Lisa! x
This is much a beautiful post, Deb. And how perfectly fitting that her tree waited until that very day, her birthday, to blossom. It makes me so incredibly impatient for Spring to arrive, and for our dream home to be finished, so we too can get into the garden and create something really special. X
Bec | Bird with a chip recently posted..Imagine… A Love Story
Thank you so much, Bec. I hope your dream home is finished soon. Spring is definitely near! Can’t wait.
What a sweetheart! That is clearly the best reason – just because.
And how lovely of the tree to give her some love back on her birthday. The universe speaks. xx
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It’s a lovely synchronicity, isn’t it Lee? xx
What a treat to read Deb. I can so relate at the moment with CG constantly asking when she will be 5. We’re on 6.5 month count down! Perhaps we should get her a tree to help learn and understand the passage of time
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The countdown is the hardest when they’re this young – I hear you! Yes! A tree would be a great idea for this very reason. It was unintentional for us – but worked really well!
I love it too. Just love it! By the way, my mum was telling me you can actually buy a fruit salad tree that bears several types of stone fruit.
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I missed this comment, Sharon! – just found it! Really? I’d love a fruit salad tree! Awesome!